
Use a visible timer and rotate the host. After each share, impose a breath and a paraphrase before any advice. The breath cools urgency; the paraphrase verifies intent. Two clarifying questions maximum. Accountability lives in the recap: one sentence of what we heard, one commitment, one owner.

Questions that climb gently uncover context. Start with facts, move to feelings, finish with implications. Paraphrase with humility: It sounds like the blocker is approval, not design; did I capture that? This approach reveals invisible constraints, invites nuance, and avoids premature solutions that create follow‑on chaos.

Silence is productive when named. Offer ten seconds after each share for note‑taking or courage. Maintain a steady pace that respects processing speed and language differences. Breath and cadence balance extroversion with reflection, so ideas arrive formed, not blurted, and commitments survive past the meeting.
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